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What is Your Relationship Climate? Love and Relationship

What is Your Relationship Climate? Love and Relationship

Intentional or not, you have created a relationship climate for all your relationships. The quality of those relationships has a lot to do with this climate. Relationship climate has little to do with the exact words you speak or the things you do. You can say or do exactly the same thing, but you have two very different relationship-climates. It has a lot more to do with what you are dealing with at that moment.


What is Your Relationship Climate? Love and Relationship
What is Your Relationship Climate? Love and Relationship
You can do something fun for someone from two different positions or a whole range in between. Let's say you decide to make a nice meal for someone. A positive climate would be created if you would like to do this, you were looking forward to spending time together and enjoying the process. There would be a negative climate if you held grudges that you took the time to do this, you were afraid to spend time together, and you thought critical thoughts when you prepared the meal.



Chances are that these two meals are identical; they would be received in very different ways. People not only respond to what we do and say, but probably even more to the climate we have created.

Consider the overall climate of your close relationships. Does it tend to be more positive or more negatively charged? All relations will have some fluctuations in the climate, but there will be a general trend.

There are many factors that determine the climate in our relationships. On the positive side, there are things like smiling, laughing, pleasant tone, eye contact, reaching for, listening to and validating others. On the negative side, there are things like ignoring, attacking, striking, justifying, defeating and being right. By keeping our behavior on the positive side, the climate of our relationships improves.

But more important is what is going on in us. If we are grateful for our relationships, if we choose loving thoughts, choose to act instead of responding to others, choose to forgive and hurt, then we do not have to work to create a positive relationship climate. create, it will already be in place.

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What is Your Relationship Climate? Love and Relationship

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